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    3.19.2007 ||>   Having TROUBLE controlling the VOLUME of my VOICE

    One thing that's really starting to get to me lately is people who have known me for awhile complaining that I talk too loudly. These people (note: people = more than one person) are not people who just met me, they have known me for awhile.

    If you are a friend or loved one that is having difficulty after knowing that I have had a loud voice for the (one, two or ten) years that you have known me, then here's a simple thing: stop talking to me.

    I'm serious. I have had a loud voice for my entire life. And it gets louder when I'm talking on the phone or emotional. If you have failed to notice this before now, I'm sorry that you're obtuse. But it is something that I have worked on. And it is something that, unless I'm conscious of every millisecond of every day, the volume will creep up on me and become loud.

    If you are not going to accept me as I am, then don't. But don't pretend that you want to be around me, and furthermore, don't criticize me for something that you're subjecting yourself to.

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